Is it normal to feel this way?
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Is it normal to feel this way?
| Wed, 10-15-2008 - 8:35am |
I know that I have posted several questions regarding this however it is still on my mind. I am getting better and accepting the fact that he has a child with an ex that will be a part of his life forever. Is it normal to feel jealous towards the babys mother? Is it normal to feel like they have shared something special and that I still have not shared that with him? He loves me very much and I do as well. We both want to be with each other for the rest of our lives. However I get this jealous feeling...almost feels like I want to have a child right now because she does. I know that my BF did not want to be with her and he wanted to be with me. She wanted him to stay with her and start a family. Will I be viewed upon as a homewrecker too? Like I kept them from being a family? My Bf made it clear that he does not want to be with her and he stated that to have the child was her decision. He still wants kids of his own. The child will also stay with her. I feel like she will never be accepting of me nor let me around the child. My Bf was to stay civil with her as he doesnt want lawyers or courts to get involved. Help! Are these feelings normal and will they ever go away? I feel like I am improving however I do have this in the back of my mind.

Welcome to this board hardcorechic,.
I remember a post about this but I can't find it on this board.