Is it ok???
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Is it ok???
| Wed, 04-07-2004 - 11:16am |
Hi everyone, just a quick question. Is it ok when my boyfriend goes out to "find some girls to grind all over and make him lose it" well dancing with other women? He is going to Vegas next week with his buddies for like 5 days and this type of behavior will be going on at all the clubs. I do not want to forbid him from dancing but the thought of him having some chics ass all over him on the dance floor kind of makes me queasy!!! Plus what happens if it leads to more, like her asking if he wants to come back to her hotel room and blah blah blah!! I would appreciate any of your views on your b/f's or husbands going out to the clubs and dancing with other women. Is it normal acceptable behavior??

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Think of it this way, would you be upset if he was all over a girl like that minus the dancing? That kind of "dancing" is essentially dry humping, which is nothing but sex with clothes on. With the exception of swingers and a few other individuals, I think we all get the uh-oh feeling from thinking of our SOs that way with someone else.
Ivy
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That sounds to me like a lap dance at a strip club, not dancing in a night club.
In any event, you need to talk to him and ask him *exactly* what he meant, and discuss what your boundaries are.
Sheri
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