Is it over? help please

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2004
Is it over? help please
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Mon, 04-09-2007 - 1:03pm
hello, heres the thing, im 24 he is 26, we have been together for a year, and live together. I love him and he loves me, i know this, but there is no lust anymore. I have talked to him about this millions of times, and he gets upset but doesnt know what too do. There is no romance, no sex, no nothing, just love for eachother out of friendship i think. I just dont know how much more i can give into this relationship, i feel like im the only one trying, when i talk to him about it he shows all these crazy emotions, but doesnt really do anything. He plans our future, and talks babies, marriage, buying a home, but he cant give me lust. Sometimes i feel like all im good for to him is a housewife, i ccok and clean for him, i feel like his freakin mother. Im just at the point of wanting to leave, but i dont want too hurt him, what do i do here?
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 04-10-2007 - 4:51pm

Hi iv_skorpio -


Have you suggest marriage counseling?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 04-10-2007 - 5:04pm

So the problem is you feel he doesn't desire you? Has your sex life decreased? Do you try to initiate sex with him?


You could try dressing up for him or do a sexy dance/strip tease for him.


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