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is it reli to late?
| Fri, 10-12-2007 - 6:37am |
hi, i have tlked to my frineds and family about my troubled relationship but i cant do what they say cus im so scared of loosing this guy he means the world to me here it goes...

Oh god this post was so hard to read
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Your friends and family are right. You're making the classic Woman Mistake called "But I Love Him" where you justify and accept his crappy behavior because you FEEL strongly for him. Feelings aren't enough if you're not being treated well.
I don't mean to insult you but I'm getting a very "high school sophomore" vibe from your post. If you're a high school sophomore then I suppose that's understandable but if you want a mature relationship, then you need to demand a mature relationship and act as though you deserve one. This guy is an emotional child. Adults recognize that arguments happen in a relationship, and what matters is RESOLVING arguments like adults. I have to say though, if at only two months in, you're already arguing, that's an awful sign. You shouldn't be setting stupid rules for one another, you should be enjoying one another's company and getting to know and understand the other person. What attracts you to this guy, is he really that hot? Is being treated poorly really worth your current feelings for the guy of the month? What do you see in him that could POSSIBLY indicate that he will be a lasting part of your life if he's already throwing out warnings that he'll leave?
Get smarter. Grow up. Demand the kind of relationship you want, and don't settle for being treated badly. Have SAFER sex (this is a must). And don't ever let a man dictate what you do or how you live your life. Take a stand for the rest of us women out there and don't let your emotions run on autopilot; only you can keep yourself in check and stop yourself from being treated like crap. The only man who is worth putting up with BS is Brad Pitt and sorry but I'm dating him right now
hi,
i'm sorry to say but your friends and family
Welcome to the board x-brunnette-babe-x,
I have to agree with the previous poster,
You don't need to be in a relationship with this guy. He doesn't respect you and doesn't want to be with you at this point. You deserve someone who will respect you and want to be in a relationship with you. Someone who won't refer to you as an embarrassment. Please let him go and work on yourself.
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Yes, this was difficult to read.
Welcome to the board x-brunnette-babe-x,
Sorry for your miscarriage.