Is it too late?

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Registered: 09-24-2006
Is it too late?
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Fri, 05-09-2008 - 11:51am

Hi everyone,

Sorry for the long post here, but anyone who takes the time to respond would be greatly appreciated :)


I think I may have messed things up a little in my current relationship, and I was wondering if there is any hope in fixing what has been done.


So I've been dating this guy for a couple of months. (I am 24, he is 23) In the beginning, I wasn't really sure of my feelings for him, and I wasn't completely putting myself into the relationship. He would call me several times a week, we'd text, talk on MSN almost everyday. He was totally into

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 1:30pm

Welcome to the board lauraley,


I got the feeling that your guy enjoys the chase.

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Registered: 03-06-2008
Sat, 05-10-2008 - 7:03am

"So what does this mean? I tend to read into things too much, so maybe I'm freaking out over nothing? I mean both of us have been busy, but still, if someone is interested, then they make the time to hang out."


Yes, I think that's exactly what is going on.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Sat, 05-10-2008 - 3:19pm
I agree with the others, and would like to add... At this point you should probably not be gauging his feelings for you on a "vibe" you get from him. You just don't know him well enough. If something bothers you then ask him, and if you don't have chemistry together that's another thing. Just see how the hike goes and make plans after that.