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Is it too late?
| Thu, 03-05-2009 - 8:07am |
My husband & I have been together for over 12 years and married for almost 6 years.
| Thu, 03-05-2009 - 8:07am |
My husband & I have been together for over 12 years and married for almost 6 years.
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Welcome to the board jodes30,
I can understand you being frustrated and wanting to give up. However, I do see the fact that he made the appt with the counselor as a very positive one.
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Welcome to the board jodes30,
::Is that bad for me to say?
No, I can understand why you feel that way. My guess is that you feel hurt/angry/resentful that he's not put you and the marriage as a priority.
I realize you may not be happy with the way things are in your marriage, but I know one thing for sure - they will only get worse by you going out after work with the guys drinking and getting drunk.
I have been pushing counseling for many months.
>>Cheaters, or those who intend to become cheaters, do not push for marriage counseling<<
When I was with my first husband, I was desperately lonely and also cheating. I was also begging for him to go to marriage counselling with me so that we could sort out our marriage. He refused counselling. I ended up doing solo counselling and left the marriage.
I think that the two of you are probably engaging in destructive behaviors that are cycling out of control.
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