Is it wrong for...........

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2004
Is it wrong for...........
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Thu, 11-29-2007 - 11:19pm

Hi Everyone,


I was wondering if it is wrong for a women to say I love you in a new relationship, before the man

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-17-2007
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 1:46am

Geez, you read my mind -

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 6:53am
No it's not really "wrong" but men take more time to develop their feelings. If you say it, and he says something like "thanks" then you'll be pretty disappointed. I always let the man say it fist. Also, consider that most relationships considered "new" haven't really gone through a lot. Is it really LOVE that you feel?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2007
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 9:31am
It is not wrong if you actually feel that way. Telling someone you love them should be said (if that is what is felt) without expectations of them saying it back. It should be about what you feel, not the other person.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 10:27am

Welcome to the board lor02,


I said it first to my DH.


I would just make sure it isn't too early in the relationship. How long have you been together?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 2:22pm

Welcome to the board lor02,


I don't think it's wrong

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2004
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 10:46pm

Thanks Everyone,


Known him for more than seven years, talked on and off through the years,but this past month we have spent alot of time together,seeing each other,texting everyday 20 plus times lol

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-17-2007
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 11:31pm

So earlier tonight my man and I were on the phone.