Jealous about past relationships

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Registered: 12-09-2007
Jealous about past relationships
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Sun, 12-09-2007 - 6:39pm
I want an input on what you guys think about knowing about your partners past-sex-partners...I hate knowing people he was once involved with, and I hate just thinking about the fact. I get jealous and it bothers me.
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Sun, 12-09-2007 - 8:32pm

There's no way around having a guy who has had past relationships/sex partners... unless you want someone so inexperienced he doesn't know how to treat you and isn't ready for anything serious.

I definitely don't think you should ask him how many, or who, he has slept with before. There's no reason to have to know that, asking only hurts. Unless you don't get jealous easily, this is one of those topics you should avoid.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2007
Sun, 12-09-2007 - 8:46pm
I agree... you don't need to know about his past relationships.
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Registered: 12-09-2007
Sun, 12-09-2007 - 11:33pm
I understand how you feel I feel the same way its only his last girlfriend that really bothers me if you find a solution let me know
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 12:25am

Welcome to the board beachbum09,


Everyone at some point has a past, but it depends, is he talking about his past all the time? Is he still in contact with the girls?

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 2:30am

I'm not bothered or upset by meeting any of my husband's ex girlfriends.

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Registered: 03-07-2005
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 6:37am
well even though we both dont like to hear about it...u should know...no details...just how many people...who....why....main things....its good for ur relationship...even if it kills u a little.