jelousy, addiction, abuse

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Registered: 07-13-2007
jelousy, addiction, abuse
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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 1:48pm
Our relationships has its ups and downs for two years now. He use to be addicted to weed and acid. He quit. Now he drinks a little too much! I am the most extremely jealous person of other women i cant stand to even be around them with him i get overheated and porn really irritates me. I have a low self esteem. He Hit me last night for the first time when i was freaking out over jealousy of him asking my friend about her problems and trying to help her! I don't know what to do at all. It use to be so perfect. Who messed it up!!!

Crystal-

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Sun, 07-15-2007 - 2:10pm

Once it escalates to him hitting you, it's no longer worth it. Regardless of how you were acting there is NO excuse for physical violence.

End the relationship or expect more of the same.

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Registered: 12-11-2006
Sun, 07-15-2007 - 3:21pm
YOu have read Codependency No More and say it has influenced your life greatly yet you are wondering what to do and whose fault it is that this relationship is so messed up. It is time to get counseling and get out. You need counseling to figure out why you are so jealous and why you would stay with someone who has addiction problems and is abusive.