Is this just a bump in the road?
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|Fri, 12-16-2011 - 2:14pm|
I have been dating this guy for 7 months and we are living together. Everything started off great. We talk, we go out for drinks and dinner, etc. We went to Vegas in October and that turned out to be a huge disaster. We fought and i would end up crying by the end of the night. After that trip it seems like whenever we do go out we end the night with a fight that leads me to tears. I finally talked to him about what is going on and he believes that even though he loves me and wants to try and make this work, we moved way to fast. I agree we started living with each other very early on. I will agree with that. I even agree that I am a little more sensitive then others and crying when we are fighting may not be the best thing. I just don't know if him feeling we've moved to fast will over power us trying to move forward. I believe since we are here why not work on what we have instead of us both getting scared and bailing. We use to talk about our future and how god had a plan for us to be together because we knew each other 7 years before we started dating (I know some people may think how cheesy). We don't have those kind of talks anymore. We have a lot of assuming and miscommunication and now we try to reassure each other we want this to work. We always say "I love you" and I do love him, I don't want to lose my best friend. I don't know if we have entered a phase most couples enter at this point