just discovered my boy is a cheater
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just discovered my boy is a cheater
| Thu, 06-03-2004 - 3:08pm |
i suspected my boyfriend of 2 years was cheating when he never wanted to have sex with me- i practically have to beg him. i found proof by snooping through his email account. he joined a site where you can get in touch with other that want to have sex or discreet relationships- i saw his profile- i was devastated. then i saw the emails....he emailed a couple girls and said he wanted to be "friends with benefits" and he wants to meet them. i am going to new york for 8 days- this will give him the perfect opportunity to meet them. it breaks my heart knowing what he is going to do. he has no idea that i know and lately he keeps telling me he loves me more than usual. i know he wants to marry me too. i love him so much and i gave up great opportunities and moved to chicago to be with him. i am not ready to break up with him now, i want to distance myself slowly, or should i confront him- and if i do what should i say- i dont want to tell him that i was snooping. i am soooooooooooo heartbroken and feel awful, i just want the pain to go away.........and i want revenge!!!!
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| Thu, 06-03-2004 - 3:43pm |
THATS A TOUGH ONE TO SWALLOW,SURE YOU WANT REVENGE WHO WOULDN'T BUT YOU NEED TO BE SMART ABOUT THOUGH.IF HE REALLY LOVED YOU HE WOULD'T NEED ANYBODY ELSE,HE IS A SHIP THAT IS ABOUT TO BE SUNK DON'T GO DOWN WITH HIM.YOU NEED TO CONFRONT HIM ABOUT IT AND FIND OUT WHY AND THEN GO FROM THERE.IT IS ALOT EASIER SAID THEN DONE BUT DON'T LET HIM TAKE YOU DOWN WITH HIM.GOOD LUCK.
