Just as everything was amazing

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Registered: 12-31-1969
Just as everything was amazing
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Sun, 06-20-2004 - 8:50am
Well heres the whole story so bear with me!

Last xmas I met this amazing guy when he came down from uni to see all of my mates! We got on amazingly and had a lot in common as well! We were flirty and were going off and talking together on our own a lot! thing is on the last day he was down we both got a little drunk and ended up kissing and he told me he really liked me! He then went back up to uni with me wondering if he really liked me or was just the drink talking!

6 months passed of me being low and missing him like hell, and not being able to even look at another guy for I would become upset because it wasn't him!

He came back down last week and the first day we just spent talking around everyone else just friendly but the second we ended up beng together a lot more and again everything was like before so I was amazingly happy again.

Thing is I had an exam and found out that he had to go back urgently so I didnt even get to say goodbye and again I sort of get left wondering and rilly down!

Please give me advice I don't know what to do I really do like him bt its killing me and I can't seem to get over him! HELP

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Registered: 12-23-2003
Sun, 06-20-2004 - 12:40pm
I am not exactly sure as to what is going on. Do you two talk at all meaning over the phone; keeping the lines of communication open? The only reason I ask is because you say that when he came back everything was the same.

destiny

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Registered: 05-25-2004
Sun, 06-20-2004 - 1:47pm
You must do the most simple, yet difficult thing. And that is nothing. He has to want you and to make contact. YOu have to wait.
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Registered: 04-11-2003
Sun, 06-20-2004 - 2:25pm
I agree with west1745. Unless your gut feeling is telling you to do otherwise, I'd wait for him to make contact with you. If there's anything I've learned about men over the years, it's that if they really want to contact you, they do! He knows where to reach you, correct? I know you're hurting, but I'd go on with life unless I hear from him. Even if he had to leave urgently while you were taking your exam, he could have left word with someone else as to how you could reach him. But he didn't.

toriphile322

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Sun, 06-20-2004 - 5:46pm
well we did talk on msn while he was at uni but we were just friendly not flirting!

when he came back on the 2nd day i saw him it was just perfect between us and like we'd known eachother forever!

The main problem is that it gets me down not knowing how he really feels and waiting for a guy who im not even with! because i really dont want to see anyone else due to the face hes on my mind i just wanted to know what other people thought i should do or stuff to help me cope