Just jealous...?
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Just jealous...?
| Wed, 05-12-2004 - 6:53pm |
My bf of several years has a new secretary. He is 41 and I'm 36. The new secretary is just out of high school (I'm assuming she is around 20). The secretary before and when she retired, the office appointed this girl as his secretary. For the first few months, he did nothing but complain about her inexperience (she made lots of mistakes). For the past several weeks, however, he has brought her name up (more than ever), in instances like, "I had to call "Susie" to drive me to the office because of my flat tire"....or "I told Susie about that and she thought it was funny..." etc.
I can't help getting the distinct impression that he is trying to make me jealous. I haven't commented on it at all...and I'm not sure how to handle it. It does make me jealous to think that he is with this younger chic all day....but I don't want to make an issue of it...what is this....? I can only invision Donald Trump with his newest and youngest fiance. sigh
I can't help getting the distinct impression that he is trying to make me jealous. I haven't commented on it at all...and I'm not sure how to handle it. It does make me jealous to think that he is with this younger chic all day....but I don't want to make an issue of it...what is this....? I can only invision Donald Trump with his newest and youngest fiance. sigh

Carrie
I agree, although this might not necissarily be the case... he is a middle aged man who had a secretary (possibly flirting) who is half is age...it has to stir some excitement, as i think it would anyone..not that Im condoning it. My advice to you is to bring to his attention his behavior and let him know its making you uncomfortable. he might not eve ralize what he's doing and may appreciate your honesty.
Best of luck,