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| Tue, 05-06-2008 - 2:41pm |
I met Jarrell, my boyfriend of 7 months, online. When we got together it was pure bliss. We were so in love, he was my soulmate I felt. Last October he completed his new house he was building and slowly but surely I moved in. Now things have changed. But i undertand certain things, or atleast I want to understand. He works a physically demanding job (construction in the FL sun all day) and has new responsibilities as a homeowner. I pay for the utilities, but he has to make a $1200 mortgage payment, which I don't help out with, I am not on the title, and I buy groceries, things for the house etc.. which he is fine with. So our "in love bliss" has faded. But like i said i can understand it to a degree. But then something happened. My friends "think" they caught him cheating on me. I was with my other friends, when one girl called and claimed she saw my man, with a girl we both work with at our weekend job (a restuarant, i waitress he busses, and the girl is both our friend) hugging her "numerous times" in a "romantic manner" and one person who was with her (not my friend herself) claims he saw them kiss. He has denied everything. I have given him plenty of outs, I have told him that even if he did do it, I want to work past it if he would just tell me the truth. Now my 2 friends who I was with HATE him, they think he is rude and nasty, and they think I can do better. He is neither of these things to me, he is nasty to them, they are a good 5 years younger than myself, and show it and are not good influences and kinda stupid, but fun girls. My other girlfriends, who were not with me that night and are my age,PLUS my father, say the same thing, in a DARK parking lot, how do u tell what a hug means, and that the story just doesn't fit together and Jarrell doesn't seem like the kind of man who would do this to me. He is

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