Ladies - how important is SEX in LTR
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Ladies - how important is SEX in LTR
| Mon, 07-05-2004 - 1:32am |
LTR meaning long term relationship
How important is it? What % of sex makes up the relationship? Would u date a guy who sucks in bed?
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Edited 7/5/2004 10:26 pm ET ET by ciao_gina
This depends very much upon the woman involved. For some women sex is a nuisance and bother and they'd be happy to have little of it. For others, it's the main course, a way of feeling loved, wanted, and desirable. A way of communicating and bonding. You have to understand who you are and accept it. If love is a deeply important part of your life and the way you receive and express love and affirmation, then it should be a big part of your relationship. For such a woman being with a man who was not satisfying would cause a deep feeling of deprivation. If you are such a person and your guy "sucks in bed", let him know how much this means to you - have him seek sex therapy...they are many ways to work out the blocks and difficulties a person has and open up the sexual part of himself. Don't pretend it isn't happening. Work on it together,lovingly.
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