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Learn to trust again?
| Tue, 09-07-2004 - 4:27pm |
I am having a great deal of stress over some past indiscretions my husband of 1 year has made. A week into our marriage, he moved out of state and I was to join him a week later (he's in the army)...he promised me he wouldn't go to any clubs or "single atmospheres" (he has a "player" past) but I later discovered that he did just that, and met and hung out with 3 girls and some of his single friends. He assures me nothing physical happened, and for the most part, I believe him. What I am having trouble believing is that he's trustworthy again when his job will once again lead him miles away from me. I am so scared, I can't take it. What's even worse, when I share these feelings with him, he seems to think what he did shouldn't have any bearing on how things are currently. Should I trust him when he's been dishonest in the past? And if so, HOW?

Carrie