let go or wait to see what happens next

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2008
let go or wait to see what happens next
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Wed, 03-19-2008 - 3:34am

I've been seeing this guy for seven months. He recently told me 3 weeks ago that he has moved out alone and has no phone. He barrowers his friends phone next door to call me like once a week or every other week. He use to call me everyday until febuarrary he only called on valintines day. He lives one hour away and I did not go see him because I wasn"t to sure if I was doinbg the right thing. I feel like I love him and I'm afraid.



iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Wed, 03-19-2008 - 11:52am

Welcome to the board threeflowers25,


Why isn't he getting a phone of his own? Can he not afford it? I can't see how you can have a strong relationship if you can't really be in contact with each other. Perhaps you can work out that you see each other every Saturday or something. Would that be doable?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-24-2008
Mon, 03-24-2008 - 1:53pm
That sounds very fishy to me! Thats happened to me before and I believed it.. the guy just wasn't interested in me anymore. But I think you should confront him about it.. and talk it out with him first.