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| Wed, 03-28-2007 - 3:56am |
i have been with my boyfriend since janurary 2004 we both worked the same place and we were both students at first he wanted me to keep our relationship a secret saying he did not want the people at work to know but i told some of my colleagues he did not want to sit by me on the bus and when i would speak to him infront of our workmates he would ignore me or shout at me and we would argue. we stayed together and i was so in love i asked him for us to move in together to save money and i could not bear staying away from me he asked his cousins who said no it is not a good idea to do since we were not married but we were having sex. after a year we started living together i noticed that he lied and kept secrets whilts we lived together we did not kiss propely for over a year and a half and he would not touch me or cuddle even if i asked adn begged. he would always say he loves me and that he has stopped lying to me. we would have sex and he stopped callign my name. i wanted to go back to my country because i am struggling here and he begged me to stay saying that when he gets his indefinite stay i will as well we would live in the house his job will provide buy one of our own and rent it out. whilst he was away on his job training i found out i was losing alot of blood and was very ill then the doctor said i was having an etopic pregnancy he took one extra week off his leave to stay with me but he was distant signing on a bus please release me let me go when i asked him about it he said that is a song the guy where we worked used to sing(truth but i think he was singing it for me). on christmas day he asked me to marry him but never mentioned anything about it i showed countless times adn days before the rings i like solatire he bought an enternity ring adn was shouting at me oh you do not like it then although i was recovering from surgery he allowed me to go on my own to town to look for another ring on my own. when i ask why he is not making plans he say we don't know how much the wedding will cost so no use making plans. i have not worked since dec after the operation. i created a profile online and invited him as a friend asked him who the girl in the pic with him and he replied my girlfriend when things were nice so i continued askign him questions he said i am lazy and he wanted to see how far he can go with the person i have pictures of breasts on there he commented how nice they were i asked if we could meet and he said he might be free on wednesday then when me the real girl asked would i see him on wednesday he started saying we will be leaving late and started arguing getting irritated saying he cannot see me on wednesday whilst i am pretending to be that other person he says to me i cannot reply you emails because i was not online and i know he is lying my visa runs out in june and he refuses to marry before that i do not want to marry him just for that i love him with all my heart yes it will help but before he got his new status i suggested we marry and he come on mine as a dependant even when we were in the same boat i wanted to marry him even though he did not have a new status or i had mine or whatever i wanted to be his wife. it hurts because about two weeks before he kept something for me so i talked about to him and he did not take the bait to tell me he changed his address for his mail and lied to me giving all reasons saying the bank has not contacted him bla bla bla when i saw the letter in his bag he then removed it in his bag because i went to look for it to show him he said nothing about it the whole day i called him to privacy and asked whether he had anything he wanted to say he replied no i told him speak to me do you have anything to confess this is your chance are you lying to me or hiding anything from he said no he does not lie to me anymore he loves me very much and wants to spend the rest of his life with me then i told him! after i told his cousin what happened she spoke to him then he came downstairs and begged me saying it will never happen ask him anything that was the last time i said its over then i heard a message from a pastor saying forgive and no man is perfect we can build the perfect man. but now i know he is still lying and might go ahead with the intentnion of cheating on me with the online (pretend) lady i do not know if it is his first time or if he has cheated. when he calls me i get so angry i feel cold and tremble sorry for the long runon there is so much more. should i stay or should i run away?
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| Wed, 03-28-2007 - 8:10am |
ebonygal, I'd love to help you, but I cannot read your post. Would you mind adding some punctuation and paragraph breaks? It would help so much.
| Wed, 03-28-2007 - 10:21am |
I skimmed through your post because it was hard to read. He was a liar when you met and he remains one. Why stay? He won't change.
