Is lieing ok?
Find a Conversation
Is lieing ok?
| Fri, 05-14-2004 - 5:21pm |
My BF told me that he had been lieing to me for the last 3 weeks, abut losing his job. I'm not at all upset about the job, the issue is 100% that he lied. Read this for the background http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlcouplescou/?msg=8002.1 Lieing is a "dealbreaker" with me, but deep down inside I don't want to lose him. Even though I am very angry and betrayed that he lied. Basicly I don't know what to do. Is what he did considered ok in most relationships? What would the "right" thing for me to do be?

IF you decide you want to try to make things work with him, there is a very specific plan of action you should follow, as well as certain minimum requirements that you need to impose on him as a condition of your staying in the relationship.
The book will help you sort out your thoughts. I recommend going out and getting it tonight or this weekend.
Sheri