A little advice please
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| Sun, 02-17-2008 - 5:04am |
I posted to "should I go should I stay", I need all the advice I can get...
I am 31 years old, I have 2 children and I have been in a relationship with my guy now for almost 5 years...
My situation is that he is a sex addict, he is always cheating on me... there has been several different women in a month... this past year alone I can not tell you how many women he has slept with... he tells me that he loves me and only me, that he doesn't care for these women that he "kicks" it with and that he takes care of me... he thinks that he is a good person and that I shouldn't leave him because he provides for me and my children... but I am emotionally and physically tired... in the early years I use to tell myself that I could deal with it you know that I could handle it... my youngest child is his so I said I was staying for my children's purpose, but right now it is almost 4:00am and he is still not home... I don't know what or how to do... I can not afford to live on my own, I don't want to go to a shelter and I don't have any family that I can turn to... a little advice please!

Do you think it's best for your children to stay with someone who treats you horribly?
Do you have a daughter you'd like to see grow up to find a man like this?
If you do the best thing for yourself, you're doing the right thing by your kids.
Right now you are hurting yourself by staying and therefore hurting your children as well.
You have to go. Do you have a job?
Is this guy the father of your kids? If so he owes you child support regardless of who he's sleeping with.
I agree with Egg... completely!
Sexual addiction is a self destructive behavior.
Perky007
Welcome to the board mothershine,
You aren't stupid. You were/are in love.