Living in the same world with his EX!
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Living in the same world with his EX!
| Sat, 06-23-2007 - 3:11pm |
I dont know how to keep this short, but I'll try. Issue at hand is how do I deal with the fact that every single family gathering I go to with my boyfriend, I will have to commingle with his Ex's family as well. Sound weird? It is! We've been together 6 years, lived together 1. Found out last year tho that his ex girlfriend of 17 years, who had 3 kids from a prior marriage, approved of one of her daughters getting into a relationship with one of his brothers! And to make it worse my boyfriend, we'll call him Bill, and his ex, we'll call her Judy, had a child together. So Judy's dtr, "Erin", started sleeping with Judy's boyfriends brother, "Bob". Now I'm with Bill, and Erin and Bob have 4 kids, although not married. UGH! So are those kids cousins or nieces/nephews of Bill & Judy's son??? And when I go to a family gathering, Erin is there with her kids. Should be ok, but I have so much hatred for Judy because she used to stalk me, follow me, follow me and my kids to stores and parks. Never doing anything bad. She is in her 50's and claims to be soooo religious. But she would talk about her sex life with him. She would tell me that Bill told her personal things about me and my body because "thats how close they are." She even took him to court to claim they were married and tried to take his company and all his property. The family business! And the entire family has to still deal with her even though she tried to take their livelihood! Then her dtr, Erin, starts to work at the family business since she is dating one of the boys. And she gets caught writing company cks to herself, leaving her kids in the car in the parking lot. Just an awful person as far as I can see. I have alot of hatred yes. Maybe too much. But I dont know how to deal with it! Everything about Judy makes me ill! And I view Erin the same way. And Bills son would love his mom and dad back together so I always worry about him trying to accomplish that. He has tried before getting them together. And she just rubs it in my face. How do I cope? How?? I feel like I cant get rid of her no matter where I go! Its not his son, I love him. Moreso before he became hostile toward me. But I dont hold anything against him. This is just the start. If someone can begin to even help me.

Welcome to the board mydtrsmom,
After 6 yrs it's just now getting to you? How have you been coping up until now?