Lonely and Tired

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Registered: 10-07-2008
Lonely and Tired
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Tue, 10-07-2008 - 1:46pm

I've been with my live-in boyfriend for two years and feel completely alone and sad.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 2:02pm

Welcome to the board gal_confused79,


So does he just not want to spend any one-on-one time with you?

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Registered: 10-07-2008
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 2:24pm
Thanks, I think I will pick up that book.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 2:57pm
I was going to suggest you do the same thing he's doing "I'm going to X, wanna go with me?" but I think you two really need to compromise - and find something NEW that you both can enjoy to share.
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Registered: 10-07-2008
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 3:58pm
I have done that (asked "I'm going to do X, want to come with?") and he usually says no.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 4:08pm
You are going to have to be really direct with him:
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Registered: 10-07-2008
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 5:07pm
Your point is well taken.
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Registered: 08-30-2008
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 6:06pm
It sounds like the two of you are not compatible in a number of ways - hobbies, romance, sex.