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| Tue, 06-01-2004 - 12:59am |
Hi. I´m writing to you because I need advice. I´ve been together with my boyfriend for five years now. Two years ago he moved to another continent because he won a scholarship to finish his masters. Now he has won another scholarship for his Phd which will take another five years. I couldn´t go with him before because I am also finishing my studies. Howver, I will be done by the end of this year and would then be willing and able to go live with him. The last couple of years have been hard on both of us but we really love each other and have managed to visit and communicate regularly. Recently however, he called to say he couldn´t go on with such a hard relationship and that it was taking too much of him. He sais he didn´t feel connected anymore. I was crushed to hear such news nut I know that we can work things out, we still love each other and if we could only wait a couple more months we could live together like we´ve been planning. I really don´t want to loose him, I love him with all my heart. Please help me and let me know what I can do to give him more confidence in our relationship and to make him feel like we can make it.
Thanks.
Thanks.
