Long Distance Love
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Long Distance Love
| Sun, 02-01-2004 - 1:15pm |
So, we met about 3 years ago and started dating 1 and a half years go.....he is way up in Baltimore and I am way down in New Orleans (we are both students)....when we see each other we have the best time, but lately our phone conversations have been getting more and more brief...lots of silence and "uhhh, So.....".
We talk to each other every night, but lately there just isnt much to talk about. I keep reading all of these articles about these couples that talk for hours and hours, and Im starting to feel insecure about our relationship. Any advice???
We talk to each other every night, but lately there just isnt much to talk about. I keep reading all of these articles about these couples that talk for hours and hours, and Im starting to feel insecure about our relationship. Any advice???

Jennifer
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James
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It is rough to keep a long distance relationship alive and well. People need actual time together, touching, affection and shared experiences for the bond to deepen. Also, when people are alone too long, even though they have someone far away, it can become difficult not to feel drawn to someone who is closer by. The way to keep a long distance relationship going is to make sure you see each other as much as possible. Talk about your feelings inbetween and any issues that arise. Also, if there is an end in sight, a time when the two of you can live close by, that often helps as well. If not, the situation can begin to seem hopeless.
Rather than just those ums and ahhs on the phone - ask him how he's feeling about this? Talk openly with each other. And make plans to get together a lot.
Best wishes.
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