from long distance to moving in together

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2007
from long distance to moving in together
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Tue, 12-11-2007 - 3:22am

We met on the internet 7 months ago.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 11:34am

Welcome to the board melanyc2007,


If you are having sucidial thoughts. You need to get some help ASAP. Please contact a therapist or tell your family. Or call the suicide hotline at 1-800-784-2433. Or post on the board anytime you need help. This is very serious.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 1:07pm

Welcome to the board melanyc2007,


Here's suicide information for Malta -


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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2004
Wed, 12-12-2007 - 6:00am

When things are this painful and out of control, it is always good to realize that NOTHING STAYS THE SAME.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2007
Wed, 12-12-2007 - 8:22am

Thanks very much for all your words of support...I am feeling slightly better and have somehow realized that my anguish is only temporary, although I still cant see myself going through these days without him (thinking of all the plans we had for the holidays) and if I can live here without him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2004
Wed, 12-12-2007 - 9:03am

Okay take a deep breath.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2007
Wed, 12-12-2007 - 6:41pm

Thank you coolas what you are saying makes a lot of sense.


I have unintentionally omitted a part to this story which needs adressing since it seems that it was another reason for our break up.


Whilst at my farewell party in Dubai with all my friends gathered around me and lots of alcohol as well, we were taking photos.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2007
Wed, 12-12-2007 - 9:17pm

I'm glad to hear you're feeling much better since your original post.


Regarding the photo of you and your friends... you cannot control what other people do.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 12:19am

Since you are going tomorrow, go ahead with the good advice you got here about taking a break.


I agree with the advice to stop grovelling. I will also add,

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2004
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 11:47am

You know after your latest story about your boyfriend's reaction to a harmless photo, he's not sounding like such a catch to me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 1:18pm
When I read about boyfriends saying, "You've been bad, and now I will cancel your diamond earrings/your trip to Spain/your engagement ring,"

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