Long Distant problems

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-28-2007
Long Distant problems
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Fri, 09-28-2007 - 5:29pm
I just found someone that I had strong feeling for sometime ago. I have never had a relationship with her before. I was afraid to make a move and afraid of how she would react. I know she liked me. Well now 9 years later. I still have those feelings. She lives in the UK now and I am in Canada. Talking to her was great. We have talk alittle here and there. I sent her a teddy bear and she says it was the sweetist thing she ever got. I have been getting advice from other people and they say t take it slow and get to know her again and don't try to rush it. I am afraid that if I take too long to say something then she will meet someone else. She is single and lonely. So naturally I don't want anyone else to be with her. I feel that is is the woman I am meant to be with. I feel she is my destiny. There are signs that she is my destiny. I want to go there and see her and make my moves but that may not be possible until November. What do I need to do to make her want me? Or get her to wait for me?
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 5:41pm

Welcome to the board mrmonopoly,


If you really like and want to be with her, then let her know how you feel. Write her an email. Are you sure that that has feelings for you? Because if not, you could be ruining your relationship.

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Registered: 12-11-2006
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 5:52pm

Does she tell you she is lonely?


Please wait a while before you spend the money and time going to see her i.e. 'talk a little here and there' doesn't sound like she is your destiny.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 1:56pm

Welcome to the board mrmonopoly,


Since you have known her for a long time, I think building a relationship via emails and phone calls is ok.