longdistance cheater 8 mo. in
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longdistance cheater 8 mo. in
| Thu, 07-22-2004 - 2:40am |
ok, he is from and is living in europe now. i have only seen him 4 times in the last 8 months. he left 3 weeks ago and i cheated on him with another non-available person - special-ops military. should i tell him? i know it is because he is emotionally unavailable to me, but i feel guilty. now i have a "thing" for this other guy. what to do, what to do?

i put myself in this situation with this guy that i have known for 4 months. i like it because he gives me constant attention - follows me around, stares, (ok, he sounds like a stalker, but i think i intimidate him) he's sweet - well he was until the other night. i had to much to drink, we went for a swim, i thought i would just lie down for a minute - yeah, right. that's when it gets a little hazy - what's crazy is i didn't even kiss this guy. now i want to do it again, because, if i am going to do something i am going to do it right - not to mention it has been a rough year.
Methinks you might like to reflect on, and take responsibility for your actions. We all have rough times and ups and downs with our partners. It's not justification to get drunk and cheat.
Does Mr Attentive know you're already in another relationship?
"...now i can't even trust myself..." So don't get involved with anybody till you can. How can anybody trust you if you can't even trust yourself?
"...if i am going to do something i am going to do it right..." Then do the right thing and break up with your LD bf.