Looking for advice re. guy who lies

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Registered: 10-09-2007
Looking for advice re. guy who lies
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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 9:39pm

Ok, so I have been with this guy for at least 3 years. Neither of us is interested in a long-term commitment (read, marriage) but the unwritten rule is that so long as we are together we are monogamous. At least I am and I know that. This past weekend we were supposed to meet and when I finally messaged him to ask whether it was on or not, he let me know that he was going to be away. Creep! If I had not messaged him he'd never have informed me that's what I feel at least. This felt weird because all the time when I had been telling him about meeting up on the weekend, he was quiet...didn't even give me a hint that it may not work since he was going away or whatever....I suspect he is seeing someone else or at least has newly started seeing someone else. He let me know today that we could meet up later this week if I had the time. I'd like to ask him directly whether he is seeing someone now and could he pls be honest but I doubt he'd be honest. So ladies, how do I find out whether he's started it out with someone else, while still pretending to be with me....any advice appreciated. Thx.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 10-10-2007 - 12:58am

Welcome to the board falcon_07,


Three years is a long time to NOT know where you stand with the guy.

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Wed, 10-10-2007 - 1:00am

Falcon, I find it odd that you've spent 3 years in a relationship which is going nowhere.

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