Looooooooong distance relationship???

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2008
Looooooooong distance relationship???
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Thu, 03-20-2008 - 11:02pm

Gonna' keep it short. I have been involved in a LDR for 2yrs. I am embarrassed to say I am 50 yrs old and looks like I still don't get it. We talk daily - usually it is him calling.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 03-21-2008 - 9:37am

Yes you should move on.

The reason: A long distance relationship will NEVER last if it always stays long distance. Being apart from one another absolutely has to be a temporary situation. How long do you intend to stay in a "relationship" with someone you rarely see?

It's good that you're dating other people but you are SO DEAD ON RIGHT about your situation. He's comfortable where he is.

It also doesn't sound like the right relationship in which to consider marriage.