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love loss story
| Sat, 09-29-2007 - 3:15am |
Almost everyone has a love or loss story heres mine from a womens point of veiw.
I'll try to make it as short as possible but its not simple.
I have been through alot in my life and have been able to get through it.
I consider myself a very stable

You aren't in a dilemma of choosing between two men. One of them you already have, and the other one you cannot have.
Do whatever it takes to put your ex out of your mind for good. He's gone from your life. Obsessing over him is poisoning your current relationship. And even if you did re-unite with him, would you ever be able to accept that he is married to someone other than you? If I were his wife, I would certainly not want him reconnecting with an ex-girlfriend who was clearly in love with him.
Whether through therapy, or simply thinking of other things when your mind wanders to him, you need to stop thinking about him, and accept that he is a part of your past.
Also, if you really want to make it work with your boyfriend, please attend pre-marital counseling. If there are issues you haven't been able to resolve on your own they'll only become more pronounced in marriage.
Welcome to the board ivyblossom,
I hope you take the time to address the real issues in your relationship with the guy you have been with for 7 years, because looking to an old relationship will not help.
Why are you
Jilly
'We are engaged so we are planning our wedding.'
'Im in love with two men.'