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lving together
| Thu, 02-05-2004 - 11:45am |
Hi - anyone have any advice on how to ask my guy if he wants to move in together. I don't want to put him on the spot - we have never talked about moving in together - but I would like him to know that I have been thinking about it but I also don't want him to feel he has to answer me right away - I just want to able to have a lighthearted discussion about it with him. I don't want to jump in immediately - I just want him to know that I have been thinking about it and want to get his feelings on the subject - so any suggestions would be appreciated. We are both in our 40's and have both been divorced - have been together for 9 months now. Thanks

It makes a difference.
If he hasn't talked about a future in terms of "you two" - realize that you're probably "just dating". Meaning that he's just enjoying the fun, sex, cmpanionship, and conversation as it is available in the moment, he's not looking to "have future" where he compromises and meets the needs of someone else on an appropriate and regular basis.
Erin
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Well, I think you summed up what you want to talk to him about pretty well all by yourself.
James
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