m feeling guilty and confussed

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-20-2008
m feeling guilty and confussed
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Sat, 11-01-2008 - 9:16pm

hi


i was in relationship with this guy for 3 yrs. and then he got engaged to another gal coz we couldent get married due to diff in caste. i was ok with it.but he promised me tht we wil be frnz always. one mistake i did was i met him after his engagment.that was coz i wanted to meet him one last time.we are not in same city.i was tryin to get away from him..so i dint cal him for a month and neither did he bother..but one day i was missing him too much so i jus called him .but he was not answering my cal.so i sent him couple of msgs.and then that eve he cald me and said tht i should not cal him.and he is in love wit his fiancee.and i should go away from his life. and he said tht his finacee has read all the msgs,and he cannot do anythin that hurts her...


so after that cal i felt realy guilty as to because of me they could have probs..so from that day i delted his nbr.his email add..every damn thing... it was in the month of sep.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-26-2008
Sat, 11-01-2008 - 10:01pm
The only thing you can do is walk away and move on with your life.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2008
Sat, 11-01-2008 - 10:59pm
He has moved on and doesnt want a
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 11-02-2008 - 3:17pm

Welcome to the board sweetsumthin,


::i donno wht he thinks about me.and whtss goin on between them..itz makin me feel guilty and confused,


::i just donno what he thinks about me,and why is he ignoring me like this?and what made the gal cal me out of the blue? when the guy and me are not even in touch?and moreever i thought he would @least msg a sorry coz his gal called me for no reason....but he just dint bother


It doesn't matter what he thinks about you, he's engaged to marry someone else.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-20-2008
Sun, 11-02-2008 - 9:43pm

Thnks...pray for me that i forget all this.coz its effecting me mentally as to how can people behave this way or just change?? i know its no point now thinkin all this....


thnks once agin for yor reply...


sweetsumthin.....:)