male friend problem
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|Thu, 06-05-2003 - 2:55pm|
Late last year, he suddenly became sexually interested in me, the first time we had sex, he initiated it, I was in shock and didn't mind since I wasn't in a relationship and haven't had sex for a year or so. We became bed buddies for a few months. I became confused regarding our friendship, plus I am not getting any pleasure from his lack of experience. I had a discussion with him regarding our friendship and having sex; he claims that he does not have romantic feelings towards me, neither do I towards him. I then told him that if we both feel this way, then we should stop having sex, he agreed.
However, every time I visit him since our discussion, he's always kissing, fondling me, and tries to have sex with me, I ask him to stop each time, but he claims that he feels a sexual chemistry between us, which I disagree.
I started dating someone 4 months ago, and his behavior continues even after I informed him I am seeing someone. At one point I became angry with him and he apologized and promised to stop such behavior, which he did.
On his birthday last month, I went to his place to drop off his gift and chatted with him. He again tried to have sex with me, he claims that he is very turned on by my presence, just like he was the first time we had sex. I got very furious with him, and haven't had any contact with him since.
I am trying to understand why I continue allow him in my life after he clearly disrespects me and disregard my feelings?