Is this man a moocher?
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Is this man a moocher?
| Tue, 12-30-2003 - 12:00pm |
I have been divorced for 15 yrs. and during this time I have worked very hard, and because of this I have managed to pay for my home and land. Recently a man that I have been dating for about a year, (although I have known him much longer) suggested that he move in with me. He says that he loves me. He makes three time the money that I do, rents,(he and his 25year old son live together and have for the past year). He pays most of his sons bills and provides a free place for him to live. His son was just recentely arrested for illegal drug posession, and is always in trouble. Anyway, his idear of an equal finicial living arrange is paying half of the bills, which are the basic utility bills and half of the monthly grocery bill. He wants to live cheapely so that he can pay off all of his creditors and save his money. He says that since my place is paid for half of the utility bills is a fair deal. Personally --I think he is trying to use me for his gain. Under these circumstances--what should a man's obligation be concerning living expenses? I really don't want to be greedy, but I don't want to be a fool either, like most women are these days. Thanks

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