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|Wed, 05-28-2003 - 7:55pm|
I returned home from a trip where I entrusted my boyfriend with my automobile and home. When I returned everything was in tact with a few things even better before I left. I was putting gas in my car when I noticed that my front passenger side of my car was stratched. I informed my boyfriend who denied it but didn't even come over to check and see if he even did the damage. He then said that I was calling him a liar and said he wasn't going to pay for my car because he did nothing wrong. The fact is I never asked him to pay because I am getting my car repainted anyway. When I tried to smooth things over then he says I will call you back tonight when I am feeling better. Needless to say he never called. I am tired of him always being on the defensive. We have been together for a year and a half and think that his previous marriage has alot to do with the way he relates to me. I am not really a paitent person and my first instinct is the break up with him because of the way he responded and responds to anything he might think is negative. I am trying not to have a chip on my shoulder but it seems to be getting bigger and bigger by the moment. I really love him but this super sensitivity has got to stop. He doesn't even listen without jumping to conclusions! Is this something he can change or is this his lifestyle. Please advise.