Marriage is falling apart after one week

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Registered: 03-13-2007
Marriage is falling apart after one week
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Tue, 03-13-2007 - 2:32am
I have only been married for one week and my husband has already began staying at his sister's house. He tells me that he is confused and maybe we got married too fast. He was the one after 7 months in the relationship stated that he wanted to be married by the end of the year. He got the license, the rings, and paid for the ceremony and the outfits that he wanted us to wear. He seemed so happy that day. I was nervous but I loved him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. He began working extra hard two days after the wedding and then after 5 days he went to his sister's house never to return to me. Every time I ask him what is the problem all I get is that he is confused and need time to think. I am really getting frustrated with him and I don't know what to do. It has been almost a week that he has been gone and He still will not talk to me. I feel like I am ready to call it quits and let the whole relationship go. Can someone please give me some advice or insight?
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 2:44am

This is really bizarre behaviour.

I am inclined to wonder about his history. Have you spoken to other members in his family - or long term friends - to find out if this is normal or unusual for him?

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Registered: 03-13-2007
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 3:26am
He has always been a straight forward person. His father's point of view shows that he made decisions and stuck to them unless there is something about his previous relationships that may have hurt him that they may not know about because he kept his girlfreinds away from his family.