Is this marriage to far gone????

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Registered: 03-05-2003
Is this marriage to far gone????
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Wed, 04-14-2004 - 3:47pm
I am a 31 year old woman. I have been with my husband for 11 years and married for 8 of them. My husband is a habitual liar which may stem from him being orphaned as a child, but I'm not a psychologist so I don't really know the cause. He also has a very low sex drive. We are more like roommates and friends. We have a 3 year old daughter together. Almost 2 years ago after a brief seperation, I had an affair. It was intense and dramatic. It ended disastrously and my husband knows about it. On top of all this my husband has gotten us into a financial mess and it is not made any better by me working part-time in order to be home with our daughter. In order to get back on our feet financially my parents have offered to let us stay with them for a few months after we sell our house. This is such a mess and I am so afraid of making the wrong decisions. Thanks for letting me ramble.

Karry

Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige

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Registered: 05-20-2003
Wed, 04-14-2004 - 6:31pm
Are you in marriage counseling?