marriage problems

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-07-2004
marriage problems
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Wed, 04-07-2004 - 4:47pm
how the hell can you be a perfect wife?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-03-2004
Wed, 04-07-2004 - 4:57pm
I don't think anyone can be the perfect wife. I don't know exactly what your husband is asking for, but he shouldn't make you feel belittled. I guess you'll have to give more information before I can say much else. If it's just a general thing where he gripes about everything, it's possible it's his way of getting more out of you. Rather than encouraging and supporting you, he prods and needles you. There's not excuse for that kind of behavior. Don't stand for it; it's unfair to you and from my experience, only gets worse. Don't believe him if he says he does it because he loves you, either, it probably really is the opposite. Best wishes!
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Registered: 09-26-2003
Thu, 04-08-2004 - 1:16pm

I got news for you...there is no such thing as a perfect wife, or human for that matter. If you are trying to work towards that label, you'll be real busy....:)It doesnt exsist.


Rather than working towards being perfect, or your version of that...try just being happy and content with your life and yourself.Everything else will fall into place.