Your husband doesn't want to be told that he's selfish, incompentent, lazy, immature, nor does he want you to sound like a mom nor does he want to be controlled or made wrong.
Your marriage is definitely not healthy at this point in time and it isn't a healthy environment to be raising your son in. If this continues on for much longer, your son will grow up thinking it is okay to yell at each other and call each other names. And I can tell from your post that you don't want that. Make sure to look at the 10 rules for fighting fair link that Carrie provided in her post.
Why don't you take your credit cards away from you so he can't charge anything to them. Since you fight mostly about money why don't you look into meeting with a financial advisor.
One thing that a lot of people don't realize is that a lot of so called marriage counselors don't save a lot of marriages.
Welcome to the board calimommy2007,
Your husband doesn't want to be told that he's selfish, incompentent, lazy, immature, nor does he want you to sound like a mom nor does he want to be controlled or made wrong.
Welcome to the board calimommy2007,
Your marriage is definitely not healthy at this point in time and it isn't a healthy environment to be raising your son in. If this continues on for much longer, your son will grow up thinking it is okay to yell at each other and call each other names. And I can tell from your post that you don't want that. Make sure to look at the 10 rules for fighting fair link that Carrie provided in her post.
Why don't you take your credit cards away from you so he can't charge anything to them. Since you fight mostly about money why don't you look into meeting with a financial advisor.
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