Married to Do-gooder

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2003
Married to Do-gooder
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Tue, 06-03-2008 - 3:22am

I am married to a very loving man...when he's around.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 2:21pm

Welcome to the board ascendor,


Since counseling is out, how about a few good books:


Relationship Rescue, Phil McGraw
Five Love Languages, Gary Chapman


Sounds like you need Quality Time to feel loved and he shows he cares by Acts of Service (but to others).

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 2:46pm
You can only change your behavior. If you feel he is not providing you with the life you wanted or agreed to marry into..then you can either accept it and be unhappy about it or make sure that you will find happiness without him.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2005
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 4:26pm

Is the idea of joining him one volunteer session per week outside the realm of possibility?

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