Mature love - living together after 60- good idea or not?
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|Sun, 11-10-2013 - 9:44pm|
I met Ray on line in March 2013 and we have clicked since meeting. What was to be a coffee date turned into a six hour antique shopping, dinner and drinks and returning home seven hours later. we seem to have so much in common and get along so well. No disagreements, harsh words in all this time. He has two ex wives and I have one ex husband. Our children are grown with kids of their own and llives of their own. Our sex life is a satisfing one. More of a mature and nurthering kind although at times very passionate. We satisfy each other and are happy to be in each others arms knowing we are loved. I feel happy, safe and content with him in a way I never felt with my husband of 40+ years. We laugh and smile, tease and at times cry tears of utter enjoyment. We spend almost every day together and i frequently sleep over at his place. Usually spend the entire weekend together. His large family has embraced me and I have slowly introduced him to my children/grandkids and they all like him very much.
My struggle is he wants me to move in with him...I rent and he owns a condo. I don't want to be his tenant, I don't want to be responsible for his mortgage, homeowners insurance, etc. AND to be honest i worry that if he ever decided he was done with me I could be on the streets. I cannot be homeless at age 65. Cannot. I do want to be with him but don't know how to tell him. I expressed my concerns and he claimed he would never put me in that situation but I'm old enough to know things happen.
Advice, suggestions, experience with this situation...would be greatly appreciated.