This may be petty, but...

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Registered: 07-20-2007
This may be petty, but...
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Fri, 07-20-2007 - 12:44pm
Last night my bf and I went out.


Edited 7/20/2007 5:49 pm ET by i12banon
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Registered: 04-02-2007
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 2:40pm

You are reading too much into this. The man was dreaming. Haven't you ever had dreams about things that you didn't really want to happen? Of course you have. No one has betrayed you. Don't make your man feel like a criminal for something that happened in a dream world.
Wouldn't it be nice to control our dreams? What would you make yourself dream about, if you could? I would dream about my mother. She died when I was 14, and my memories of her are fading. I can't remember her voice. I'd like to dream about her and get to see her again, but I never do.

Cat 

Mom to 5: DS-17, DD-16, DD-11, DD-9, DS-7

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Registered: 09-19-2002
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 2:56pm

He can't help what his brain does when he's asleep. Yes, you are reading too much into this.

However... your feeling of betrayal are all coming from within. You own those feelings completely because he didn't actually betray you. Maybe this is something you should look into.