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Me and my ex
| Tue, 03-09-2004 - 11:51pm |
Hello,
Ok, i really need advice on this, and i am sick and tired of only hearing that me and her are too young for a serious realtionship (I am 17 and she is turning 17 in june), because I know that i can't live my life without her, and i can live it with her. We broke up at the end of Feburary, and then we had a huge fight and after that she thought I hated her. She broke up with me because I would not give her space and she felt like I was pressuring her into sex, and that I bought her gifts just to get her into bed. I really love this girl and I want her back so bad. She gives me the silent treatment online, but when we are together (even though we are just friends) we hold hands and kiss and get touchy and stuff, and I can tell from how she looks at me and the look in her eyes that she wants me back, and I want her back, but right now is not the best time for me to do anything because her mom just had a misscarriage and she did not know that she was pregnant, and she really wanted another daughter and my ex really wants a baby sister even though she liked being the youngest. I know the type of pain they are going through because my mom had 2 miscarriages, but their pain is much more than mine too. I just need to know what to do now because I am soo confused, I don't know if i should ask her back out or give her time(which im doing right now), and wether or not I should still tell her that I love her and I want to be with her. She has made sacrifices for me before we even started dating, one very very big sacrafice. Please help me, I am in desprate need of it. Thank you for your time
Ok, i really need advice on this, and i am sick and tired of only hearing that me and her are too young for a serious realtionship (I am 17 and she is turning 17 in june), because I know that i can't live my life without her, and i can live it with her. We broke up at the end of Feburary, and then we had a huge fight and after that she thought I hated her. She broke up with me because I would not give her space and she felt like I was pressuring her into sex, and that I bought her gifts just to get her into bed. I really love this girl and I want her back so bad. She gives me the silent treatment online, but when we are together (even though we are just friends) we hold hands and kiss and get touchy and stuff, and I can tell from how she looks at me and the look in her eyes that she wants me back, and I want her back, but right now is not the best time for me to do anything because her mom just had a misscarriage and she did not know that she was pregnant, and she really wanted another daughter and my ex really wants a baby sister even though she liked being the youngest. I know the type of pain they are going through because my mom had 2 miscarriages, but their pain is much more than mine too. I just need to know what to do now because I am soo confused, I don't know if i should ask her back out or give her time(which im doing right now), and wether or not I should still tell her that I love her and I want to be with her. She has made sacrifices for me before we even started dating, one very very big sacrafice. Please help me, I am in desprate need of it. Thank you for your time

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