me, him, the ex, and the kids

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Registered: 02-18-2007
me, him, the ex, and the kids
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Sat, 03-17-2007 - 11:34pm
Ok. I have written before. I was/ is having an EA with a coworker. He's not around often anymore, but I find myself thinking about him and wanting him around. My life just got a lil more crazier by the fact that my grandmother, my beloved, passed away recently. I miss him. He knows how I feel because he went thru this twice last summer. I just want a hug from him. I need his support. And things with my boyfriend aren't the best. He has been feeding into his ex's f*cked up games. It is pissing me off and I feel is my main cause of wanting this one person. I need help. I don't know what I'm doing sometimes. I am sick of his ex's games and he knows he's feeding into them and he said he didn't care. He wants to be in her younger son's life and doesn't care the cost (which of course, I find messed up). I also have a problem with the fact that he and I never spend time alone. It's always him and one or more of his friends. They play a card game, which is like chinese to me, and I feel left out when his friends are around. I have mentioned it to him, and he has nothing to change. I will appreciated any advice. Thanks in advance.
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Sun, 03-18-2007 - 12:28am

I'm not familiar with your old posts (hoping someone may post a link), so I'll ask you a quick question.

You're completely unsatisfied with your boyfriend and he's not going to change. You have previously and want again to seek solace from another man. So why do you stay in the relationship?

Isn't it better to end an unsatisfactory relationship than stay in an unhappy limbo?

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 03-18-2007 - 5:01am

Hi wonder_woman -


I can't find your old post, but I think I remember part of your story.