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Men and online porn
| Fri, 04-02-2004 - 4:43pm |
Has anyone out there found porn on their fiance/husband's computer? I just found some material on the computer we BOTH share and confronted him about it. I feel horrible. Just picturing him looking for this stuff on purpose makes me sad and feel like I don't know him. It wasn't a part of our relationship before and we're getting married in 5 months. We've been together 9 years! Now I don't know if I can go through with it. While it may not be the worst thing he could do, it makes me feel deceived and downright nauseated. Any advice, ladies? Thanks!!
Edited 4/2/2004 5:45 pm ET ET by nyc1027
Edited 4/2/2004 5:45 pm ET ET by nyc1027

I hope your issue is not a serious one like mine.
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Good luck!!
As far as whether you still want to marry, that's tough one. I couldn't stand nor tolerate it if I thought my SO was looking at that stuff. What's the point of getting married if it's just a sacrament of adultery. That's how I feel about it. Obviously, that's too strong for a lot of people. I just feel that a man who cannot be trusted in fantasy cannot be trusted in reality, either. "As a man thinks in his heart, so is he." Absolute best wishes in whatever you decide.