men & money.......sorry this is a long one!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2011
men & money.......sorry this is a long one!
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Fri, 02-24-2012 - 11:48am

hello ivillagers....

let me begin by stating that i lean more towards the side of an old fashioned marriage like my parents.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2011
Sat, 02-25-2012 - 10:12am

to izzyandalexsmommy........

you completely hear where i'm coming from!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Sat, 02-25-2012 - 11:22am

After reading all the replies you've had, and finding your post from November (thank you Geo, I recognized the name too, but couldn't find it) I'm just going answer the questions you asked in your last paragraph.

Was it selfish of you to take all this time off when you could have had the opportunity to get "us" ahead?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2003
Tue, 02-28-2012 - 2:26pm
This is hard to hear and may not be something you are willing to do, but I would get out of this relationship as soon as you can. You will always be the one doing all the compromising. I'm not a relationship guru, just speaking from experience. Change is hard, if not nearly impossible sometimes.

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