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| Tue, 06-29-2004 - 3:34pm |
I think I messed up and need advice on how to fix it. I am starting to date again.
I went on a date with this guy over the weekend and at the end of our date, he gave me a hug in the car. Sort of surprised me. At least that's what I think he tried to do. I'm not sure if he wanted a kiss also. I hugged him back and I got really nervous. I did not look at him after the hug. I looked away from him and told him to call me while i was getting out of the car. I heard him say O.K. He probably thinks that I blew him off and am now afraid that he won't call me again. He's a little shy. This was our fourth date and we've gone out once a week since i've met him. I tried to fix it by emailing him to thank him for a nice time and looked forward to seeing him again. I'm starting to really like this guy. Did I mess up? Do you think he will call? Anyway I can fix this? Thanks in advance.
I went on a date with this guy over the weekend and at the end of our date, he gave me a hug in the car. Sort of surprised me. At least that's what I think he tried to do. I'm not sure if he wanted a kiss also. I hugged him back and I got really nervous. I did not look at him after the hug. I looked away from him and told him to call me while i was getting out of the car. I heard him say O.K. He probably thinks that I blew him off and am now afraid that he won't call me again. He's a little shy. This was our fourth date and we've gone out once a week since i've met him. I tried to fix it by emailing him to thank him for a nice time and looked forward to seeing him again. I'm starting to really like this guy. Did I mess up? Do you think he will call? Anyway I can fix this? Thanks in advance.

Why don't you call him and ask him out ? that will beyond any shadow of a doubt let him know your interested, unless he's a little slow like on and doesn't pick on little things :-)
Good luck and keep us posted
Let us know what happens
Gina
After my last post, I have initiated a hug the first couple of times when our date ended and he seemed fine and happy with that. The third time we went out, after my last post, we hugged and he kissed me on the cheeks and I was suprised by that and reacted a little nervous. But the very last time we went out, I was the one who intiated what I thought was going to be a hug and he suprised me by trying to kiss me (I think he thought I was going to kiss him). We both ended kissing each other on the face and 'the kiss' never happened. We both made our move but I only let it happen half way and I pulled back when I got really nervous and realized 'the kiss' was not going to happen. I wanted to kiss him. I'm so embarassed about what happened. It was such a sloppy attempt on both sides. It's been a long time since I kissed anyone. He did not look happy that night when I left the car.
I called him the next night and got his voicemail instead. I left a message letting him know I wanted see him again and to give me a call if he wanted but I haven't heard from him yet.
I think I really messed up this time. I don't know if he'll ever call. Do you think I should talk about it with him or should I just go with the flow and not bring it up....maybe we can laugh at it later on if I see him again?