MM - OW/MW - issues

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Registered: 05-12-2008
MM - OW/MW - issues
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Wed, 05-14-2008 - 2:55pm
Been having an A with MM since June of last yr. I am M too. MM is one of my best friend's H and MM is friend's with my H. We have a VERY close circle of friends. I have felt no guilt over what we have done and still do not. A with MM has been rocky since about 3 months ago. I got sloppy. I am unsure of why, but could have to do with each time we would hook up, we had been drinking heavily. The 1st time I screwed up. we went to his house (W, at work), thought he said his neighbor would not be home, so I parked my car there. When I came
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 3:21pm

Welcome to the board gymrat01,


I am sorry but I don't think you should continue with this relationship until both of you are divorced.

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 3:35pm

On most of the boards like this, I don't think you'll find a lot of support for continuing an affair when you are both married.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-12-2008
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 3:37pm
thanks. I know you are right about both parts.. it is just not easy.
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Registered: 05-12-2008
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 3:39pm
Thank you.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 4:20pm

Welcome to the board gymrat01,


Here's two other boards you might find helpful at iVillage:


Ending an Affair Support


My Affair Support


I've heard the stats on relationships starting from affairs that become marriages aren't good with them being lasting marriages.


Don't go from the frying pan to the fire.