Moving on After a Breakup

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Registered: 02-09-2004
Moving on After a Breakup
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Mon, 02-09-2004 - 1:02am
HI it has been about 10 months since me and my ex have broken up and i still cant get over him. We want to remain friends well at least he does i want to be what we were again. Now he has started to date this new girl. It just seems like he just keeps passing me up and never wants to come back. What should i do? Should i give up on us ever being together again? How can i be happy? How can i move on?
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Registered: 02-09-2004
Mon, 02-09-2004 - 1:18am
it's simple: move on! and moving on means dont call him, email him, see him, or think about him. period. he is not coming back, and even if he was, do you really want him? remind yourself of your lowest point together and ask yourself if you ever want to feel that way again. it takes 21 days to regrow neural pathways. just totally get him out of your head for 3 weeks and you will notice a difference.
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Registered: 02-09-2004
Mon, 02-09-2004 - 1:20am
PS- he doesnt really want to be your friend. at best, he just doesnt want to hurt your feelings. at worst, he wants to keep stringing you along. is this really how your friends treat you?
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Registered: 09-05-2003
Mon, 02-09-2004 - 10:35am

The only way you are ever going to be able to move on is if you end all contact with him.