Moving or breaking up?

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Registered: 05-02-2004
Moving or breaking up?
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Wed, 05-05-2004 - 5:46pm
Hey girls,

I need someone's advice on this. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and having a long distance relationship all that time since I was in school. Every since we started going out we knew we had to do the long distance if we wanted to be together but we were always comforting each other by reminding us that once school would be over we could finally be together by moving in. Well now the time has come. I'm graduating next week and my boyfriend just told me that he isn't ready for us to move in together. We have talked about ways we could make this work but he's not sure if he can do the long distance anymore. He said that it's been too hard and he doesn't know how much more of this he can take.

Now I am completely torn. I love him to death but if he can't commit to this relationship what am I supposed to do? How can I make him see that we can work this out together?

Sonia

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2004
Wed, 05-05-2004 - 6:52pm
He says he isn't ready to move in together and that he can't do the long distance thing anymore? I'd just ask him if he is beating around the bush and if what he is really trying to do is break up with you. I might be wrong, but that is what it sounds like.